Author, Speaker, Advocate, SurThriver
Alana Sharps is a thought-provoking inspirational speaker, international bestselling author, and empowerment advocate renowned for her powerful story of self-discovery, resilience, and transformation. With a journey that took her from the depths of a toxic marriage entangled with domestic abuse to rebuilding her life and the lives of her children, Alana’s story is a beacon of hope and empowerment.
As a dynamic speaker, Alana captivates audiences with her raw honesty and compelling narrative, offering invaluable insights on overcoming adversity, embracing a growth mindset, and harnessing inner strength to conquer life’s greatest challenges. Her speaking engagements are not only deeply inspirational but also thought-provoking, equipping attendees with actionable strategies to apply to their own lives.
Alana’s international bestselling book, “Was It My Fault? An Abuse Survivor’s Story and Guide for Navigating Narcissistic Red Flags,” has touched countless lives, offering education, inspiration, and hope to those navigating similar struggles. Through her authentic storytelling, practical tools, and unwavering commitment to empowering others, Alana inspires individuals to rise above their circumstances and create the life they truly deserve.
Beyond her books and speaking engagements, Alana is a prominent advocate for self-discovery and empowerment. She frequently contributes to meaningful conversations on these topics through media appearances, interviews, and community events. Her influence extends to diverse audiences, from leaders of prominent organizations and nonprofit groups to domestic abuse survivors and community advocates.
A captivating and engaging speaker, Alana’s story is a testament to the power of determination and the indomitable human spirit. Her message resonates deeply, reminding us all that no matter the obstacles, transformation and triumph are always within reach.



Out of CrazyTown Podcast Episode 17 Video Clip
Alana Sharps, high conflict divorce coach and author of the book: Was It My Fault, joins Jackie Miller to share her story of an abusive marriage and the post separation abuse she endured during her high conflict divorce.
Timeless and Unbowed - A Celebration of Talented Women from the Cardinal State of North Carolina.
Jesse’s Rally for Change 2022
I had the honor of speaking at Jesse’s Rally for Change in remembrance of Jesse Ray Adams. Jesse was murdered by his father in 2012 shortly after his mother filed for divorce. Jesse is one of more than 800 children who have been murdered by a divorcing or separating parent in the United States since 2008.
I had the honor of speaking at the Timeless and Unbowed, A Celebration of Talented Women from the Cardinal State of North Carolina, event on the characteristics of a great leader and the importance of emotional intelligence, self awareness and self care.
Speaking Engagements
National Association for Public Defense
Domestic Violence - Human Rights Summit
Women Veterans Support Services Domestic Awareness
Jesse’s Rally for Change at the North Carolina Capitol Building
Timeless and Unbowed - A Celebration of Talented Women from the Cardinal State
My Qualifications
Certified Trauma Specialist
Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach
Harvard Certified Strategist
Bachelor of Science, Mechanical Engineering
Certified Lean Practitioner
30 years of Corporate Strategy
My Areas of Expertise
Trauma Healing and Self Discovery
High-Conflict Divorces and Co-Parenting
Complex Child Custody Plan Negotiation
Awareness of Personality Disorders
BIFF Communication Strategies
Evidentiary Documentation Strategies
Safety Plans for Escaping Abuse
My Associations
Board Member, Together4Change of NC
Associate Member, American Bar Association
Member, Domestic Violence Speaker Bureau
Member, Woman’s Club of Raleigh
Advocate, National Safe Parents Organization
Partner, Women Veterans Support Services
Mentor, HER Foundation
Podcasts